Anguish over the Churban

Concepts: Fearless people should have anguish over their lack of fear: “Everything is in the hands of Hashem except for fearing Hashem” means If you daven to fear Hashem, you automatically get it; 17 Tammuz (Why is Chet Ha’egel not mentioned?) Luchot shattered – Shemot 32:15 Rashi – 1st tablets- Hashem made them. We are missing and mourning what Hashem is occupied and delighted with; Hashem never has to answer to us; Eigel showed we thought He must answer us. The only place Hashem has to answer to us is if we ask to fear Hashem.